By means of molecular dynamics simulations with an all-atom force field we investigated the affinities of alkali cations and halide anions for the dioleoylphosphatidylcholine lipid membrane in aqueous salt solutions. In addition, changes in phospholipid lateral diffusion and in headgroup mobility upon adding NaCl were observed using fluorescence spectroscopy. The simulations revealed that sodium is attracted to the headgroup region with its concentration being maximal in the vicinity of the phosphate groups. Potassium and cesium, however, do not preferentially adsorb to the membrane. Similarly, halide anions do not exhibit a strong affinity for the lipid headgroups but merely compensate the positive charge of the sodium counter-cations. Nevertheless, larger halides such as bromide and iodide penetrate deeper into the headgroup region toward the boundary with the hydrophobic alkyl chain; this effect being likely underestimated within the present non-polarizable force field. Addition of alkali halide salts modifies physical properties of the bilayer including the electronic density profiles, the electrostatic potential, and the area per lipid headgroup.